What so ever negative happens on this earth to a women they bring it out in the form of tears…
Will tears solve the entire problem?
Are not men facing any problem?
Or do they don’t have hearts and hence they don’t feel about it?
Is crying the only way to bring out our expression, the inner feelings masked deep inside the heart and mind?
Are tears a tool to get what we want?
Certainly NOT!!! Tears never solve our problem…
Women are by nature more sensitive than men. They lower their self value by using tears as their weapon. This weapon tends to wipe out them. There is always a battle between the mind and the heart.
The difference between mind and heart is like the surface and the bottom. It is the surface of the heart which is mind, and it is the depth of the mind which is heart. The mind expresses the faculty of thinking, the heart of feeling. [Hazrat Inayat Khan]The surface of the heart (mind) is known by imagination and thought. Most women take the issues to their heart which lies beneath the mind. The emotions run as currents through the lake of the heart. Those currents stir the depth of the lake and produce ripples on the surface of the lake, the mind. The mind's images are determined by, the heart, but the mind shows only the surface of what is happening in the depth.
When the depression is brought out through tears it results in only weakening the person and reducing the value for which they are feeling. As days pass by the issue that made them shed tear is no longer remembered. To defeat the depression we should never bring it out through tears, rather should hold it deep inside the heart and explode at the right moment.
Nice post....excellent flow of words accompanied with a good theme....
ReplyDeleteBut i don agree with u on certain aspects....its better to shed down tears rather keeping it inside..which stops ur flow to progress towards ur next step.....and men do cry but not outshown like women...may be even more than women.....a little research would do to clarify it.....
hmmmm...nice cool stuff which every human as to think of...
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, i wud like to make one point clear, tears r not only for womens. Things needed for tears is jus the eyes and importantly the Pain or the pleasure when it goes beyond ones threshold limits...
Tears dusnt stop us, but shows us the way to come out of that problem. Cry out your problem yaar,then u can win over ur problem. I agree in one pt that there is no solution to any problem jus by drowning ur eyes in tears for ever n never u find a solution to it. Conserving/Holding all the pain mite lead to eXploD mite lead to the explosion of ur stabilty n credibility as u never knew when is the right moment gonna come, even if it comes very few find it out as the right moment...
Santosh and k7,
ReplyDeleteWhat sensitivity is?
1.Sensitivity is the strength of feeling
2.Rapid perception with the senses, reacting to small changes
3.Readily getting hurt or upset
I do agree on the point that tears are not only for women and also take back my words that “women are more sensitive than men”.
I would rather make it as “An individual being sensitive is according to his/her character”; hence let me not compare the two opposite sets.
Tears are brought out once the saturation limit is reached in their heart, that there is no more place for them to hold it on. I don’t totally oppose this tear.
I do agree that women now are far better than our ancestor community of people.
I wanted to highlight that tears will not solve all our problems and that there are still majority of women who do this without thinking of what has to be done next!!!
alas u gve ur verdict clear here
ReplyDeletewomens are more sensetive there is no doubt about that.
ReplyDeletelife without emotion and feeling is meaningless.
so emotion has to be the part of our life.
i think tears if comming during frustration is not good at all
but tears that comes when a person meditate after remembering there loved once that tears gives u satisfaction. there has to be emotion everytime .
the sentence "When the depression is brought out through tears it results in only weakening the person and reducing the value for which they are feeling"
absolutely correct be fearless said by swami vivekananda.
emotion is totally depends upon circumstances and i feel if the emotion or tears that come during meditation never weakens but always strengthens all of us and gives us satisfaction or peace of mind.
the end of the article was absoultely nice i.e. we should not imitate in front of our heart or we should never control our emotion for the sake of other.if not clear i will write a comment again.it is ur wish.
hi vishal...
ReplyDeleteThanks again for commentin here...
U r absolutely rite, tear due to frustration is not gd.. it ll result in weakenin d person n den destroy us frm comin up!!!
I wanted to make people understand dis... n u hav got it rite...